Civil Beings
3 min readJul 20, 2024

WHY PEOPLE LIKE Pooja Kelkar indulges in SCAMS

RETHINK

It’s spread everywhere like a virus. whichever news channel you open will find the same story and there are many more coming out from the Pandora box. everyone gossips about it, and becomes consequentialism that this is the situation so the result must be this and that.

But my question is why these things are happening nowadays more and increasing in numbers. there might be a root reason for it. otherwise, nobody from childhood thinks of becoming a scammer or fraudulent.

in my opinion, it is simply the reason for missing out, family and societal reasons. when a child grow they are not born criminals it's the society and the surroundings where they grow. the way they adapt the way they reflect.

this “so-called” society can make anyone a criminal by pressurizing them for their career, marriage, looks, and the list goes on.

I know many of you would not agree with me and that's ok too since everyone has their views and perceptions. and that's why we are called humans. we can't be like machines with the same coding and algorithms.

the fake showoff in public appearance and indulging in an endless race of being no.1 no matter what is ruining the moral ethics and integrity of a human being not as personal but as professional well-being. people are so much in this that they have become a kind of addicted victim of this outer perception of the “so-called modern “ society.

success and failures are just a part of life and you can't judge a person through his scorecard whether he/she is successful or a failure. it is just a life and everyone needs that space to adapt and replicate what they have learned from their experiences.

the bigger and root cause of these incidents is that

  1. Parenting is not done properly. if you are rich that doesn't mean you will allow your child to do whatever they want to do. early childhood age is just like a lump of clay and the way you shape it it becomes that only so make them beautiful by their attitudes, apathy, integrity, and thought process.
  2. don't pressurize your child in any way. it creates a negative impact on your child's brain and you can't even imagine how far it can go. try to teach them to be balanced in life, give them the nourishment of good attitudes of accepting their situation and working on it.
  3. as a grown-up, it's our responsibility to work on our mistakes and negativity rather than proving to an outsider that we are so good and worthy. it will reflect itself the day you have improved.
  4. there's another beautiful world than the plastic faces of social media. so come out of it. give some time for yourself. ask yourself if everything is ok do you need some help. this is what we call “self-talk” and it's the best natural medicine to cure your inner wounds.
  5. be disciplined in life whatever your dream just work on it and whether you succeed or fail remember one thing your experience will never go to waste and you will achieve great heights in the future.

so only cursing society and the incident doesn't bring any change in your life. be real think about the consequences and situations. whenever you see such things just give a reminder to your brain to think act and work upon your thoughts. don't waste your time on unnecessary gossip because many of them just do it so they can satisfy their failures. and play a blame game that this happened that's why I did achieve that. stop blaming others and your situation. It is only you who is responsible for your present situation.

Open up your mind and rethink. This is the right time.

Thank you for reading here. if you have come this far it means that you have already started an alarm to wake up. This is an aspirant signing off. see you all some other day with a new learning of the day.

Civil Beings
Civil Beings

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Writing to me is like painting my thoughts with different emotions of life into the life's canvas. it's a healing therapy that cures my wounds with positivity.

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